Friday, October 1, 2010

Just another update

Hey everyone,

B here again been a while since I last wrote. I been busy lately with kids and randomness haha. So here's the update. Hubby has a new job and is loving it, J has one also and she also loves it. I am also going to start working on Monday, I got a crossing guard job. It isn't much but it's better than nothing and it is rather enjoyable I get to meet a lot of interesting people. It's definitely an adrenaline rush. Trying to figure out the best way to get kids across safely and running into the street with a red stop sign and people getting impatient and revving their engines like they're close to hitting you if you don't move soon. People ugh. I turned 22 sept. 29th and boy did we have fun my dad came to visit me it was great. Hubby turned 46 sept 28th. Our youngest daughter is turning three Oct. 31st so cool we get to celebrate Halloween and a birthday at the same time gonna be double the fun. No word yet on what we are going to do for her yet though. Hubby's celebration is this weekend on account of he had to work so we are celebrating this weekend. My son is crawling and even starting to pull himself up and so is A's youngest. They both babble so talking won't be too far now. I am looking forward to it but whoa will my life change I'll be chasing them all over the place. Take care everyone. I'll keep you all updated thanks for reading.

Later, B

Sunday, September 5, 2010

Our First Home Service

Hey everyone,

Well today we had our first at home service. Rich did a really good job and it was very interesting to watch him preach. Our kids didn't like the taste of the wine their faces were priceless. It was very well done Julie sang the first song and she has a beautiful voice after the sermom we all sang the closing hym and went to the park. It was so much fun we had a picnic and the kids played on the playground. Even the babies enjoyed themselves it was so cute when they played together I swear babies have their own secret language. There was even a man there that made his own instruments and he lets local musicians play them, the instruments were beautifully made I can't wait to get my guitar and strum a bit with them. (That is whenever I get my guitar). We are going back next week if it is nice outside. That's it for now.

Brandy

Wednesday, September 1, 2010

No Longer Do We Have To Hide

This is a poem I wrote for my family I hope they love it as much as I love them. (yeah it's a bit lame but hey i suck at poetry lol)

No longer do we have to hide.
No more do we have to remain in the shadows.
We can be more proud then we were before.
We are polygamists and yes we do exist.
No longer is it a problem to hug and kiss and to show our love.
They may be out but they are not down.
WE ARE PROUD!!!
WE ARE A FAMILY!!!!
So shall it forever remain.

Hey everyone,

Hope you enjoyed this little poem.

Thanks for reading, B

Tuesday, August 31, 2010

Yet Another Change

Hey,

Well hubby and A are getting excommunicated someone at church outed us as polygamists. We knew this was going to happen, A and I and hubby talked about since I came into the family. We just hoped it wouldn't be this soon. Poor hubby and A are taking it really hard, J was getting ready to be baptised Saturday she is still going to but somewhere else possibly Pewaukee Lake not sure yet. It is up to her. We all hope God can give us guidance and help us through this. That's it for now but I'll keep you all posted.

B

Monday, August 23, 2010

Just Another Day

Hey B here,

It's just been another day. We started a new schedule today everyone was up at 7 this morning total drag but we gotta get used to being on Tori's school schedule. I was so tired though my son had been up off and on last night he had gotten cold. We are all very worried about our DH he is still not working and he's still grieving over the fourth that we were supposed to have. He misses her so much and it kills me to see him that way. All we can do is let him have his space and pray he will eventually heal. I've never seen him so depressed. A was mad at me again today sometimes it feels like I can't do anything right. I apologized not much more I can do really other than try to do better. J is excited to have our daughter back home she missed her a lot and our daughter was so glad to be back. Sometimes I wish I were more like them but I can't change who I am I can't do more than my best and it feels like that isn't even enough most days. Oh well. Well that's it for now.

Later, B

Thursday, August 19, 2010

Meh....Not Sure What to Title This One (oh wait guess that's the title haha)

Hey B here,

Well it's been one rough week. We had a bit of a squabble but everything is fine now. I just called MATC today and found I can't start school until January I missed the deadline for registration I still need my high school transcript such a pain. A, J, and I dyed our hair last night. A dyed hers eggplant, J dyed hers red, and I dyed mine raven black and gonna put red or blue highlights in when we can afford them. Our hubby just applied for a new job out at Quad Graphics and at Johnsonville Brats, J didn't get the job at Quad so the Lord answered her prayers because she was very unsure whether to take the job or not. She applied for a job at a school to be an interpreter for a deaf kid. It's looking good. I applied at Boston Market. Yeah I know this is so not about polygamy but it is an update on my family. Our two year old girl goes to see her other dad tomorrow and poor J is very nervous and doesn't know what she'll do without her this weekend. We are all going to try to help her get through it as well as we can. I am worried about my dad he still hasn't found a job and is very depressed I miss him terribly, going to try to convince him to move here so I can make sure he's ok and so he can see his grandson on a regular basis. Well that about does it for now.

Later, B

Wednesday, August 11, 2010

Kids. A Poem.

Kids

We love them we spoil them.
They drive us nuts but then they give us the puppy dog eyes.
Don't be mad mommy I'm sowwie.
My hearts melts at the cute little pleading voices.
When mommy's eyes are smiling they stole our hearts away.
Crying, fussing, snotty noses.
To me they're just like little roses.
Mommy, I love you, mommy read to me.
Cuddles, hugs, kisses, wishes.
Kids, what would we do without them?

Dedicated to my five kids. I love them all and wouldn't trade them for the world.

Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Hey everyone B here again,

It's been a good few days A has a bit of heartburn but she's feeling better. J is going to make us all cute headscarves and dresses when she gets her sewing machine. She also has an interview at Quad Graphics we are all hoping it goes well. I am still waiting to hear from the newspaper but I'm going to try at Quad as well put my foot in the door. College is fast approaching and I am so excited I can barely sit still. The kids are doing great J is starting her daughter potty training she's getting better at telling us when she has to potty and sits for a bit before she gets off the potty chair. A's lil ones are doing great as well the oldest one is talking more and her baby is trying to crawl. My lil one is trying to crawl as well and getting more teeth but no telling when they'll cut through. Our hubby still isn't working but he's looking and trying to be useful poor guy needs to work he gets depressed when he doesn't. Keep him in your prayers please he lost a very dear friend not long ago to a car wreck and it's hit him rather hard. Pray he feels better soon. He is also looking to add a new wife to our family next year not sure how that's going to work. A isn't too keen on it but hey a lot can change in a year. Well that's it for now.

B

Tuesday, August 3, 2010

B here with another update.

Now I am sick and so is J's daughter poor thing, I've got some kind of upper respiratory infection can't quit coughing and it's miserable. J still has her pneumonia but it's getting better. My son is teething and has a fever again and he was up all night again last night. We are all hoping the house gets healthy and stays healthy. Our hubby drove A nuts earlier so now she's upset and probably will be for a while. All that aside I start school again soon and I am so excited can hardly wait and my son tried to crawl last night he got up on all fours and rocked for a few minutes then promptly planted his face back down into the carpet it was cute and funny. His face was like how'd I do that. Anyways, that's it for now. Later.

B

Friday, July 30, 2010

Another Day In My Life

Hey all,

B here giving an update. My son was up last night A had volunteered to watch him since it was my morning with our husband. I feel terrible neither J nor A got any sleep last night cuz of him. J had to go to the ER this morning cuz she had chest pains thank goodness it wasn't a heart attack nor a blood clot, it is Pneumonia (still not good but better than the other two). We all hope she gets better soon. Our husband is loving his third shift job but poor thing is so sleepy when he gets home. We all think he's adorable when he sleeps he looks so peaceful. That's it for now.

TTYL, B

Sunday, July 25, 2010

My Poly Family

Hey,

I am B and I am the second wife in a modern poly family. It's fun but it also has it's trials mostly me as I am the youngest of three wives at a mere 21 years old. My first wife is A, she's the legal wife. Myself and our third wife J aren't legal. However we love our hubby very much. I know at time my sister wives want to kill me but most of the time we get along great. The age differences can grate on everyone's nerves but we all try out hardest to get along. I love them so very much though. Til next time bye.

B